Moving on up...

Yeah, so things are going better. The nice thing about looking at women is you realize when they are looking back. That’s a nice feeling. Well, when they give you a good look. That “you ate the last piece of pie” look is NOT my favorite. So... I got a nice wink from a girl at school yesterday... and possibly a nice little look from a very nice looking girl at work, but I don’t read into those looks... not unless I catch a solid look, like the wink. One thing that I do find funny is that while gender views have basically melded into a guys and girls can do the same thing and it’s ok... which is good for all of us, I think it is pretty ironic that it is still kinda not kosher for a girl to ask out a guy. Maybe if I was some sexy stud that would change, but I am not aware of that happening to them frequently either. That has to be taken with the disclaimer that women that, while I am sure are great people, are not the most attractive happen to approach guys fairly frequently. I do have to admit that I am superficial when it comes to being anything more than just friends. There has to be attraction for there to be more than that. That being said, there are SO many different things that are attractive, it’s not something that can be listed out. Well it can but it is not time productive. If you are that worried about being attractive to someone you need to just walk up and say hi, worst thing that will happen is they will say no. You have to give it a shot. You don’t need to sell yourself, keeping going when you hear no each time, but you can’t give up after one no. Unfortunately there are a lot of men and women out there that will say something or ask something not looking for a real answer but to see a reaction, like a test. If someone is more interested in testing you than having a real conversation save some time and move on. Life is too short to play high school games with adults.